Abstract: By taking the nine essential factors theories of the emotional intelligence as the basic point of the argument,the author in this article briefly analyzes the basic connotation of empathy in a view of the emotional intelligence,introduces the function and relations as the manner and which produced by the mistake of the self-projection,meanwhile,analyzes concretely empathy as the communication skill to infer,the practical method and decision in three aspects.Then he proposed the search core information,the e...