Abstract: The etiquette and custom of marriage in the Book of Songs times demonstrates richly and colorfully, has already offered as a gift the distinguished and admirable musical sound of ancient society or new change of. There are the restrictions of parents' orders and matchers'speech, there is freeborn of marriage too. Pay attention to the form,even more to the symbolic of item and object in its wedding.The wedding gifts such as "wild goose", "firewood", "deer" and "fish"have vital connotation of culture.