Abstract: Family order based on the harmonious interpersonal relationship in modern civilization,is a regular system to support the existence and healthy development of families.family order comprises the sexual relations of marriage,the relations of the family members as different roles,the relations of rights,duties,and economy among family members,the ways of family life,the family education,the family culture and the family ethics.The self building of the family,the effect of the model and mutual influences betw...